That thread about missing people reminded me of something that I personally have dealt with right here in this place.
There was the couple...poor as church mice, and *different*. They entered the dining area at church and nobody seemed to welcome them. Nobody. They stood out and alone. I saw. I went over and asked them to sit with us. They did. I tell you, they are what some call different from others in some ways, but never have I met sweeter, nicer folks. They are now a part of my life as great friends...and I so welcome them. He looks after his wife that cannot look after herself..some medical things...and he is so attentive to her...he's just a jewel to his family. I see why. She has some difficulty with speech, but I smile..I know what she means, and she smiles back at me. I adore my friends...and now they are part of my social friends, and I could not have chosen better folks to befriend.
Now the others joined me, and these folks have found friends galore..and are loved and appreciated. How very good.
There is a mountain of a man...size 5 or 6 XXXXXX, and 6 foot, 6 inches tall...big...OH YES. I welcome him. He's a special Giant..the most gentle man that I have ever met. He knocks off all light when he enters the door. How I met him: Years ago at an auction, I got cold...I felt a blanket being wrapped around my shoulders.This man that I had never seen before...this mountain of a man had gently placed his sweater around my shoulders cause he noticed I was cold. He has looked after me when things go bad...always gives a good word or smile. He's my shy, large friend...and a good one.
I could go on and on about people.
Yep. I attract the underdogs..people forgotten. The disabled and elderly...the outcasts. I can't explain it. I just have compassion for them and how they feel.
We are our brothers keeper..yes. We are.
Nancy